Are you tired of struggling? I know you are. I hear from people all week long through my social networks and radio show who are just fed up with feeling like rats fighting for crumbs. You just might be one of those folks who have just had it with all the promises of success through reading a book, or taking a course or attending a webinar. How much time and money have you invested in things that just don’t work? Are you ready for success?
First define wealth for yourself. That’s a HUGE first step. What does it mean for you? Write it down in your journal and feel it. I’m not talking about just getting emotional about it either. Feel the reality of it in your bone marrow. KNOW that nothing is ever withheld from you by Source. You are the only one with the power to present yourself with experiences. You’ve lined things up the way they are for a reason. That reason is to remind you what you are believing into form and show you that you are powerful to create these situations. Here is the kicker… the same way you get all that struggle is how you get wealth and joy and happiness!
Most often we ask for something because we simply want to escape the feeling we are currently in. Take time to get honest with yourself about that. If you are wanting money because you are feeling awful about not having enough money that will only bring about more not having enough. ( Yes I know I rambled with that sentence, I meant to get your attention & it did that big time) Let’s take another example. You want a great relationship because you either don’t have a relationship at all and don’t like being uninvolved or the one you are in stinks. Perhaps you are experiencing dis-ease and crying out for health because you don’t want to be sick anymore.
I get where you are coming from, honestly I do. I can also promise you that that way of using energy will only result in more of the same stuff you say you don’t want. Let me give you a walk through of what I’m talking about here. Look at the top of this page, notice where it says Farm. That’s a dream of mine. Now I don’t live there now. When I drove by it and my daughter texted to find out the price I didn’t have the amount of money in my bank to purchase it. (That’s not the actual house / prosperity by the way) The actual property has 38 acres, swimming pool, two story four bedroom, 3 bath, formal dining room etc.. nice.. very nice. Zoe and I made an appointment for a walk through and fell in love with the place. I instantly knew it was the energy I want to experience for not only my home but the Lady’s Farm Healing Retreat. I stated that I only needed to sale 100,000 books and we’d move in. It’s still available too.. we went by the other day.
Anyway here is my big point. My focus isn’t on not having the $315,000 to purchase it, that keeps it always out there in dream la la land. My focus in on the experience I want to have. Living in that home or one like it, swimming in the pool, riding the horses, entertaining guests, having people, (maybe even you) join me for a weekend or a week of self exploration, and enjoying the firecrackers out of the experience. Having the money isn’t the main thing. The experience of the home, living there, eating there, enjoying myself is the key. Do you see what I’m talking about here?
Ok, let’s move on. Struggling is based on not having. It’s rooted in escaping a situation more than anything else. I don’t want to get away from the life I have now, I want an expansion of it. Feel the difference? Wealth is based on the whole experience, the whole thing. It’s not about trying to get away from or out of anything, it’s all about moving into a new expression of wonder and fun. This attitude always allows that what you desire is already possible. Running to rather than running from makes a monumental difference in the ease of your life. Struggling with life is always the result of not being clear about what you do want. It’s based in not enough, lack, hard times. Running to empowers you through the wisdom that everything you ask for is already yours. Like the Lady’s Farm, it’s already mine. I asked, it’s done. That experience is already there just waiting for me to walk completely into it. While it’s unfolding I’m enjoying the process. That process is writing articles, blogs, books, doing my radio shows, videos, cooking, cleaning, sleeping and playing. In other words I take steps all day long, every day, to be in that experience.
I have defined wealth for me and it includes health, friendship, money, laughter, helping others, and yes stuff like houses, food, and cars. I don’t wait until all that is here in my hands to know wealth either. It’s mine. NOW! I enjoy it each moment of each day. One of the most powerful things you will do for yourself is to take time to define wealth for yourself. Be honest. Are you running from or running towards? That makes the difference.