Being happy is a choice, your choice. Only you can decide how you feel. You keep saying that others are “making” you act, feel, think, do; this just simply isn’t true. You are the one with the power, you are the one with the choice to make about how to BE.. or how to feel, act, or do. Others bring you opportunity to experience thoughts and emotions, to act or react, but you are the decider, not them.
What are you choosing right now? The answer is simple to gain, listen to your thoughts, feel your feelings. Is this the energy you wish to use to create your experiences today? If not shift right now by picking a thought that is more in line with what you want to experience. Watch how your feelings follow that thought, more thoughts, more feelings in line with that energy come easily to you now.
Stay with this process, let it build, stay in the energy groove. Now when someone comes into your space offering you a choice to experience yourself as something other than what you’ve already lined up to feel, you can easily say , “no thank you” and stay in your energy groove. Notice how things and people with similar to what you are thinking and feeling begin to show up. It’s easy now to stay in your creative energy groove.
No matter what comes to your attention remember that the choice to be happy is always yours. You decide by choosing thoughts, feelings and actions in line with what you want to experience. No one has the power or authority over you to force you to feel or think any other way. You always get to decide on your own feelings and thoughts.
The more you practice this the easier and more natural it becomes. In the beginning you will catch yourself jumping vibrations, it’s easy to decide to line back up with what you want to experience.. just shift those thoughts and feelings back to what you want to experience.
Within a short time you will notice that experiences line up more and more often with this new state of being you have chosen. It get much easier to stay in this groove.
Enjoy your creative powers, know yourself as the one creating it all.. You have the power to create your life the way you like it.