Honesty is the first step to changing your life

 

 

I’m sure you’ve heard the old saying, “honesty is the best policy”, but do you believe that?  Do you live that?  Being honest is the key to changing your life.  Being honest about what you feel, think, why you say the things you do.  Being honest about your beliefs is important to. 

I know that it’s popular in the spiritual community to deny any feelings that don’t feel good.  This isn’t a great policy if you really want to experience your life differently.  Your emotions are there to guide you.  Feeling frustrated for example, lets you know that something is not the way you want to experience it.  Most often we either deny the feeling or work really hard to change what’s already being experienced.

A better way is to be honest.  Lay it out for yourself.  What are you feeling?  Frustration.  Ok.  Now what is frustrating about your present experience?  Why are you not enjoying this experience?  Does the experience not respect you?  Are you feeling limited?  Are you being reminded to treat yourself in a different manner?

By playing around with the feeling you will see beyond the emotion to the message the situation is bringing you.  You are the Cause energy of your experiences.  As Cause Energy what you believe about yourself and others is the building material you are using to create experiences.

Often these feelings are calling you to take a new action.  If you are doing the same things over and over again in the same way of course you are getting the same recycled events to interact with.  Perhaps it’s time for you to make some really big changes. We say we want change yet we often don’t really do the inner work that is required to create anything different.  Sometimes it’s uncomfortable to change.  It might mean changing the way you interact in your relationships.  It could mean getting a different job, moving or just letting go.

When you are really honest with yourself about you & your life you will be able to make the inner changes necessary to bring about a new set of experiences.  Take one step at the time.  Self honesty when applied with gentleness & self love brings about a new experience of you and your world.

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When things feel bad, what do you do with that?

Sometimes people show up to be your reflection.. sometimes so you can be their’s.  It’s all a matter of perspective.  Recently I had someone say something rather unkind about me.. it was also not true. I think the part that was so unkind was that it’s not true. 

I had an opportunity to decide what this meant to me.  Should I get angry?  Get even?  Confront the person?  I chose none of those things.

Rather I chose to look at what the message was behind these unkind, untrue words.  I realized that the pain of the other person was not mine.  It had nothing to do with me.  People sometimes try to share their hurt with others.  Reasons are varied, fear, jealousy.. the reasons don’t really matter to me.

What matters to me is what I chose to do with the experience.  I chose to forgive, learn and keep moving forward enjoying my life.  Stuff happens.  We co create with others.. still we don’t have to get caught up in the energy.  I chose to stay in my joy.  That’s what matters to me.

Have you been hurt lately?  What choices did you make?  I put myself at the top of the importance list.  My joy is valuable to me.  Letting others affect me isn’t the way to joy. 

You decide.  What will you learn about yourself by the hurtful words of others?

I love you.. Peace…

Donna DeVane

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Discover the Energy of Thrival

Thrival is all about YOU

Learning To Thrive with Donna DeVane The Barefoot Guru

 

Thrival is the answer to hard work, making it, getting through.  Rather than just survive you can discover how to Thrive.  Each Monday at 2pm C I host a radio show for an hour where I read from and discuss my book, “How To Thrive In A Survival Mindset World”.  You can get your own copy at Amazon or for an autographed copy click here 

Join me each Monday to discover and share on Thrival.. it’s the energy for 2013.. and beyond.  Are you weary of working so hard and barely keeping afloat?  If you are ready for a new, excited way to experience your life, I invite you to join me.  With the book you can read along, call in or type questions / comments in the chat.  Even without the book you will be able to interact with me and others.

I’m dedicated to success.. mine and yours.  I teach, coach, write and host due to that commitment.   If you are ready for a new way to live, a new experience.. a new mindset.. I invite you to take part in the book and the radio broadcast.  While on our station.. check out all the broadcasts.. Visit Awakened Radio 

Celebrating your Cute How we see ourselves matters

Celebrate Cute

One of the really great things about owning a radio station is getting to know so many awesome people.  As we come together at The Awakened Radio Network we find out so much about ourselves by sharing with one another.  Working a radio station together is a new and exciting experience for me.  Recently we aired a “special broadcast” with several of us joining together to celebrate our cute.  That’s the player above, click it to listen to the broadcast.

We had a great time cutting up about how cute we all are, which it totally the truth.. we also shared some terrific insights into our self worth, awakening and how we are living our lives in a new ways.

Loads of people are interested in “what’s next”.  We’ve spent years trying to figure out who we are and why we are here.  Perhaps it’s not as complicated as we’ve made it.  What if we are here to experience ourselves as creative energy playing about with molecules to create experiences so that we can interact with ourselves? 

The longer I play at being human the more fun I’m having.  I’ve learned to lighten up and just go with what delights the stuffing out of me.  Have you got that yet?  That there are no rules… it’s really about what delights you?  No right or wrong.. just creators creating according to our desire to experience.  It’s not permanent either.. play with your creations for as long as you are enjoying it, then just let it drop, the molecules go back to buzzing about, waiting for your to create with them again.

I invite you to join me and all the other hosts at www.AwakenedRadio.net  Check out all the broadcasts on our schedule and join us in the live chat room.  We are reminding one another of just how awesome and cute each of us indeed is.     

 

Changing Beliefs Learning to Thrive

What shows up in your life as experiences shouldn’t be a surprise anymore than what grows in your garden should surprise you.  When you plant a garden you pick your seed with care knowing that what is planted will surely grow and produce in the image contained in the seed.

The same is true in your life.  Your beliefs, those ideas you have of how things really are, are the seed of your life. You plant them with you sense of knowing them to be the truth.

When you know it’s true for you, it’s true for you.  Even the stuff you don’t want to experience anymore.  As long as you stay in the
“this is true” energy.. you will continue to create that.

When you understand this you can then begin to change what you know to be so and thus change your experiences.  When you realize that just saying “I’m fat” isn’t what makes you fat.. it’s the belief that food just creates fat or that you have always been and always will be fat that does it.  Look deeper.. is the a self worth issues hiding in the shadows?  Is the large body a way of protecting yourself from more harm?

We are amazing beings, Divine Human Creators.  We create without even paying attention.. think how much more fun it will be when you do it intentionally.  Take stock of those belief seed.  Are they really what you want to experience?

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Process of Creating What You Want

Most of us want something different, yet most stay in the same old reruns of experiences.  It’s like that movie you watched that wasn’t very good the first time, imagine having to watch it over and over again for years.  Eesh… LOL  Does your life feel that way sometimes or a lot of the time?  You’ve read all the books and taken a lot of courses, maybe even worked with a life coach and still not much seems to change right?  Is there a reason that you are stuck?

Yep.  There is a reason.  You are in a rut due to thinking, feeling, believing, doing & being the same way over and over.  It’s not enough to just feel good for a few minutes a day.  More is needed than applying a balm of emotional chemicals.  This is what most do.  Jump from teacher to teacher, feel good to feel good.  When the feel good wears off and you are back to creating your every day life.. you must get another feel good fix.  It does help with the emotions.. you can even tell yourself that you’ve “got it”, see how good you feel. 

That’s working so great for you lately though is it?  You just might be one of the ones that is beginning to feel real dissatisfaction and are ready for some real, deep down changes that actually create a different experience day in and day out.  That’s good. 

When you get really ready you will begin to feel aggravated with the feel good stuff.  You will yearn for something more permanent, something that really moves you forward into a new experience.

It’s great to feel good, but when nothing outside the emotion changes it starts to feel a bit out of sort doesn’t it?  Many are experiencing this now.  It means you are ready for some deep, real, true changes.

You are ready for some shadow work.

Shadow work is when you go within & inventory all those beliefs and habit thoughts that you continually create with.  Where did they come from?  Do they work for you?  Did they every work for you?  The vast majority of everything you believe about everything didn’t come from you.  It was handed down to you by parents, family, friends, co-workers, society.  Now is the perfect time to look through them all and release those that don’t work  to create what you want to experience.

Just realizing that the beliefs don’t work is a powerful first step to letting them go.  Look for the truth behind the belief that doesn’t work.  For instance; I can’t do this, it’s too hard, I’m just not good enough.  What is the truth behind that false belief? 

Sit in the silence for a bit.  Let the question play around inside you.  Feel the answer coming into view.  What is the TRUTH?  Who are you really?  When you feel the answer the false belief will fall away and the new empowering belief.. the knowing will move into place.

Now you are ready to begin creating with new energy.  Do this with all the beliefs you hold.  Don’t rush the process.  Take your time, let it be a sacred journey back to self.  Learning to create a new reality is an exciting process.  Enjoy it.. celebrate it.

Visit www.AwakenedRadio.net to see our schedule of shows to empower & inspire you on your journey.  Check all the links from the nav bar at the top of the page.  We are family.. join us.

Promote your book, coaching, healing, website!

June 2nd 2012 is The Day to go live on the Awakened Radio airwaves with your book, coaching / healing services or product.

Radio is a great forum to share your message, product and or service with the whole world.  We help you to do just that.

Awakened Radio is dedicated to Being the energy of change.  We do more than just talk about change, we make changes.  You are invited to Be this energy too. 

Last month’s speakers day was awesome.  We were crying tears of joy by the end of the day.  You could feel the love, compassion & caring of our speakers and our listeners.  This is just the beginning of what we are creating.

Awakened Radio really is more than just an online radio station, we are family.  We really do care about each other, our planet and our self.

As station owner & host, I invite you to take part in something awesome.  Claim your 30 minute slot with us June 2nd and go on air to tell the world about the transforming power of your book, product or service.  We will help you promote it, we’ll provide archives that you can place on your website or blog.

We are doing more than talk, we are making things happen.  Join us.  Be part of something truly transforming.  Get the details at the website.   Let’s get busy creating the change we want to experience.  Let’s to it together.

UFO’s Aliens Political & Religious Cover Up

Alien Scriptures: Extraterrestrials in the Holy Bible
By Rev. Michael J. S. Carter Is Donna DeVane’s guest.  Wow, what a mind blowing topic and book.

Michael shares his personal experience and information from his book to the delight of our listeners.  If you’ve ever wondered about Aliens, if they are really among us and for how long you will want to hear this show and read Carter’s book.

I have long had questions on this topic and must say that Carter’s book & interview answered many questions while bringing up many more.  Why don’t we know for a fact whether our government knows and has proof of this?

How would it change our society? Religion? Politics?  These are some of the questions Carter answers for us during the interview.

I suggest you visit Rev. Michael Carter’s website & purchase his book.  He has agreed to come back on air with us to answer our listeners questions.  Contact me through Skype by adding AwakenedRadio to your contacts  to let me know you’ve read the book.  I will then arrange for another interview so Carter can answer your questions.  Our website is www.AwakenedRadio.net

Listen to my interview with him here. http://www.talkshoe.com/resources/talkshoe/images/swf/lastEpisodePlayer.swf?fileUrl=http://recordings.talkshoe.com/TC-75476/TS-626464.mp3

Letting Go in Order to Fly

You want change.  Most people want things to be different.  Perhaps you want more money, a more fulfilling job, a great relationship, a new dress size.

You want change.  Do you want to have a new experience enough to let go of the present one?  Are you ready and willing to move out of the known and into the unknown? 

Change is the unknown zone.  Even though you really want things different than what you have now, you must relinquish the known for the unknown zone, and that feels spooky.

Imagine a butterfly that has gone through the process of transforming from a caterpillar and has emerged with wings.  Now he can fly.  He knows that he has wings.  All he has to do is move his wings and off he goes.

Would he hold onto a branch and flap his wings?  Would he fly if he did?  No, on both counts.  In order to fly he must be willing to move through all the process of change, and embrace the unknown zone.

You too must be willing to move into a new expression.  Listen to this Healing Circle radio show  http://www.talkshoe.com/resources/talkshoe/images/swf/lastEpisodePlayer.swf?fileUrl=http://recordings.talkshoe.com/TC-75476/TS-626440.mp3

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