You already predetermine your experiences, mostly, though, you are unaware of what you are creating and how. Pause for a moment and consider all the time spent worrying, dreading, dreaming up and imagining how life is soon going to be for you. See the power of that?
That’s how it’s done. I could stop right here as that is the key.
Take that same principle and use it with the ideas of what you really do desire to experience. Stop worrying your experiences into place, rather, dream your life into place. It’s that simple. It might not feel so easy to start with as you haven’t practiced this way of creating often enough for it to feel natural. Continue practicing. Imagine what you desire to experience. Always go there. When the mind wanders STOP and go into your imagination and create your desires.
Just keep doing that. Do it over and over again day in and day out. No matter what is there for you now, interact lightly with it knowing it’s just a shadow. Keep your mind fixed on your desires and soon you will begin noticing how your experiences start to change. Stay the course.
Love yourself well!